This week the current pulled toward
uncertainty.
I have a good friend I’ve known for more than 35 years.
Somewhere around middle school, he decided he wanted to teach history
and coach football and that’s pretty much what he did. He taught history
and coached football for more than two decades and is now a school
administrator. There’s something pretty impressive about knowing that
early what you want your life to look like and then sticking with
it.
I, on the other hand, was not that kid. At various
points, I thought I might be a lawyer, a professional football player,
and probably a few other things I’ve forgotten. I loved football,
although I was
actu
ally
better at basketball. Not that either was going to become a career.I
really didn’t find parks and recreation until I was about halfway
through my time at Virginia Tech. Looking back, it feels like a pretty
important turn but at the time, it was just the next turn. We put a lot
of pressure on young people to have answers early. Pick a school then
pick a major then pick a career. Start building toward a future you are
supposed to somehow understand before you’ve lived enough life to know
what fits.
Some folks do know, while others take longer, and some
people think they know, only to discover years later that the plan no
longer fits the person they’ve become. Priorities change, families grow,
and opportunities appear that you absolutely couldn’t have planned for.
In some instances, you end up finding a completely different use for
skills you already had.
At 47, I can draw a fairly logical line through parks
and recreation, local government, trails, economic development,
consulting, and the outdoor economy.I certainly could not have drawn it
in college and, if I’m being completely honest, I highly doubt I
could’ve drawn it ten years ago. I think that’s probably the part worth
remembering.
Having direction helps. Being curious and working hard
helps, too. But having every answer ahead of time is absolutely
unnecessary. There’s plenty of room to adapt, change your mind, and
figure out the next part when you get there.
- Mike.