What the Current Pulled Toward
This week the current pulled toward
discernment.
Let’s talk just a little bit about how easy it is to
inherit an opinion. Your supervisor has one. Your political party (if
affiliated) certainly has one. Your professional association has one.
Ever had a friend you trust says something with so much confidence that
it becomes tempting to simply adopt the conclusion and move on? I think
most of us have fallen victim to that. Public service isn’t immune to
that.
Through the years, I’ve sat in
pl
enty of rooms where you could tell a position or decision had
been settled long before the conversation ever started. Sometimes it was
the result of loyalty, while other times it came from politics. I’ve
definitely seen it come from organizational culture and sometimes, I
suspect, it was simply easier to agree than to be the person asking an
inconvenient question. Whether we like it or not, there’s a cost to
that.
Independent thinking doesn’t mean disagreeing for the
sake of being difficult. I’ve known people who seemed to believe that
being contrary was proof of intelligence. I prefer discernment as the
bellwether. When forming an opinion or a stance on a particular issue, I
find it most beneficial to listen, ask questions, and separate the
person from the idea. I think it’s easy to skip to the end when you just
don’t like someone but we all know that’s not helpful. Look at the
information in front of you and then decide what you actually think.
Perhaps most importantly, leave enough room to change your mind. Let me
say that last part again: leave enough room to change your mind. It
feels increasingly difficult to do that. We’ve somehow turned changing
an opinion into evidence that someone lacks conviction, when oftentimes
it’s evidence that they’ve learned something.
I’ve changed my mind on plenty of things over the
years. I’d say most of that came from a combination of experience and
people who challenged me. It’s also safe to sat that some came from
realizing that a position I had defended pretty confidently just didn’t
hold up particularly well once I slowed down and looked at it from
another angle. I’m definitely better for all of it.
Public servants have an obligation to exercise
judgment. The title on the door doesn’t relieve us of that
responsibility, nor does the opinion of the person sitting in office on
either side of you. There will always be pressure to pick a side quickly
but discernment gives us an opportunity to take a beat and to ask
whether the choice in front of us is actually the choice we have been
told it is. It allows us to consider whether someone on the other side
might have a point and occasionally (brace yourself) to say, “I was
wrong.”
- Mike.