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ISSUE 39, 21 July 2026
Welcome back to The Bend!
The Bend follows a simple rhythm each week. The Eddy Line opens with a one-line thought or observation, something short enough to remember but worth thinking about. What the Current Pulled Toward dives a little deeper into where the previous week’s energy went, whether that’s a project, a partnership, or a personal lesson learned. Signal Fire highlights a person, place, or initiative that deserves some attention. From the Field, shares a small anecdote about the broader outdoor recreation economy from Oxbow’s non-profit arm, the VA MTNS Outdoor Collective. And One Thought Worth Sitting With closes things out with a brief reflection or quote that will hopefully help guide you through whatever you may be dealing with.

It’s part journal, part field note, and hopefully something that makes you pause for a moment before diving back into the current.
The Eddy Line
“If given the choice between being right and being kind, choose kind.”
What the Current Pulled Toward
This week the current pulled toward decorum.

There have been several local moments lately that have been difficult to watch. Public displays ranging from indifference and disrespect to something closer to outright malice. The particulars are less important than the pattern.

Like most people, there are individuals whose company I don’t particularly enjoy. There are people with whom I disagree, sometimes strongly. There are also people whose decisions have significantly disappointed or frustrated me. None of that, though, requires a public display of contempt.

I’m not suggesting I’ve always gotten this right. Looking back, I can think of many conversations I’d handle differently today. Over the last few years, I’ve become much more aware that what I say and how I say it (and even what I choose not to say) shape the experience of the people around me. I still have work to do, but I’m trying to be more intentional about the example I set and the impression I leave behind.

I’ve always believed in the old adage, “Praise in public, criticize in private.” That doesn’t mean avoiding accountability or pretending every decision is a good one. I believe public servants have a responsibility to ask hard questions and challenge poor judgment and speak plainly when circumstances demand it.

How we do those things still counts, at least I feel that it does. Public service asks people with different personalities, priorities, and perspectives to sit at the same table, a table where tension is inevitable and disagreement is part of the job. However, personal humiliation, dismissiveness, or calculated disrespect don’t have to be.

That distinction appears to have blurred across every level of government. Behavior that would once have been considered embarrassing is now excused as candor, strength, or the resignation that that’s just the way things are. I’m hopeful, though, that more public servants will begin pushing in another direction. I would love to see a shift toward meetings where disagreement can remain disagreement. Perhaps a shift toward criticism that addresses the decision without diminishing the person or the understanding that restraint is not weakness and courtesy doesn’t require surrender.

The public takes its cues from the people entrusted to serve it. The way officials treat one another eventually becomes part of the culture surrounding the institutions themselves.

We may not always get to choose who sits across the table but we do get to choose how we conduct ourselves once they’re there.

- Mike.
Signal Fire
Local government is often judged by its outcomes. Roads get paved. Budgets get balanced. Parks get built. But behind those outcomes are professionals who spend their careers learning how to lead organizations, navigate competing priorities and serve communities with integrity.

Virginia Local Government Management Association exists to strengthen the quality of local government through professional management. The association brings together city, town, and county managers, along with members of their leadership teams, to share ideas, invest in professional development and support one another in the work of building stronger communities.

Its vision is simple: supporting local government managers as they build great communities through inclusion, innovation and leadership. Just as important, VLGMA’s members are guided by the International City/County Management Association Code of Ethics, placing integrity, professionalism and public trust at the center of local government management.

Good government rarely happens by accident. It grows from people who continue learning, hold themselves to a high standard, and never lose sight of who they’re there to serve.

To learn more about VLGMA, click
here.

From the Field
“Nobody ever outsourced anything for quality.”

Ric Cabot, CEO, of Darn Tough said that. The company has operated mills in Vermont for decades and still designs, tests, knits, finishes and packages every pair of its socks there. When much of the American textile industry moved production elsewhere, the Cabot family chose to remain and build its brand around durability, local skill and control over the finished product.

Outdoor gear manufacturing is easy to view only through the product hanging on a store wall. Behind it, though, are machine operators, designers, material suppliers, technicians, distribution workers, and communities where those jobs remain rooted.

Keeping production close also keeps knowledge close. Problems can be addressed on the floor. Feedback can reach the people making the product. Skills are passed from one generation of workers to another.

For Darn Tough, “Made in the USA” describes a sock. It also describes the network of people responsible for making it.
One Thought Worth Sitting With
This week’s theme: Decorum.

“Civility is what allows leaders to speak hard truths,
set firm boundaries, and hold people
accountable without dehumanizing them.
-Diane Kalen-Sukra
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