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ISSUE 16, 10 FEBRUARY 2026
Welcome back to The Bend!
The Bend follows a simple rhythm each week. The Eddy Line opens with a one-line thought or observation, something short enough to remember but worth thinking about. What the Current Pulled Toward dives a little deeper into where the previous week’s energy went, whether that’s a project, a partnership, or a personal lesson learned. Signal Fire highlights a person, place, or initiative that deserves some attention. And One Thought Worth Sitting With closes things out with a brief reflection or quote that will hopefully help guide you through whatever you may be dealing with.

It’s part journal, part field note, and hopefully something that makes you pause for a moment before diving back into the current.
The Eddy Line
“Fear is a mile wide and an inch deep.”
What the Current Pulled Toward

This week the current pulled toward imposter syndrome.

I had the privilege of presenting at the Wisconsin Park and Recreation Association Conference last week. It was my first time speaking at another state association’s event and on paper there was no reason to feel anything but gratitude and excitement.

The lineup was stacked with well-known speakers. The engagement was strong. The conversations were meaningful. And yet, somewhere in the back of my mind, I kept asking, What the hell are you doing here?

Rationally, I know I’ve put in the work. I’ve been in this profession for decades. I’ve led teams, written plans, navigated budgets, built partnerships, and made plenty of mistakes along the way. But imposter syndrome isn’t rational. It doesn’t check your resume before it speaks up.

Jason Bookheimer and I presented on leading with empathy and the importance of prioritizing mental health in parks and recreation, topics that matter deeply to both of us. The irony isn’t lost on me that we were talking about psychological safety while I was privately questioning whether I deserved to be in the front of the room.

The takeaway for me wasn’t that the doubt disappeared. Trust me, it didn’t. The takeaway was that I showed up anyway. I spoke anyway. I leaned into the conversation anyway. The work itself isn’t about eliminating fear. It’s about doing it afraid.

- Mike.
Signal Fire

The Wisconsin Park and Recreation Association (WPRA) set a high bar for professional development and leadership in our field last week and it’s apparent that this wasn’t a one-off. Their annual conference brought together park and recreation professionals from across the country for education, connection, and forward-thinking dialogue. The energy in the room was tangible: a mix of seasoned leaders and emerging professionals all invested in strengthening the role parks play in community well-being.

What stood out to me the most was the culture of engagement. Folks showed up ready to learn, ask questions, wrestle with hard topics - including things like mental health and workplace culture.

WPRA and associations like it create the kind of professional space where growth happens, even when it’s uncomfortable.

To learn more about WPRA, click here.
One Thought Worth Sitting With
This week’s theme: Imposter Syndrome.

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.
-Nelson Mandela
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