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ISSUE 4, 4 NOVEMBER 2025
Welcome back to The Bend!
The Bend follows a simple rhythm each week. The Eddy Line opens with a one-line thought or observation, something short enough to remember but worth thinking about. What the Current Pulled Toward dives a little deeper into where the previous week’s energy went, whether that’s a project, a partnership, or a personal lesson learned. Signal Fire highlights a person, place, or initiative that deserves some attention. And One Thought Worth Sitting With closes things out with a brief reflection or quote that will hopefully help guide you through whatever you may be dealing with.

It’s part journal, part field note, and hopefully something that makes you pause for a moment before diving back into the current.
The Eddy Line
“Gratitude keeps us grounded. It reminds us that progress is rarely a solo effort and that the moments worth remembering usually come from the people who walk beside us and not the milestones themselves.
What the Current Pulled Toward

This week, the current pulled toward gratitude.

The VRPS Annual Conference stirred up more than I expected: humility, pride, optimism, and a deep well of reflection. Most importantly, it stirred up gratitude.

After leaving the public sector earlier than I had planned, I wasn’t sure how it would feel to step back into that space surrounded by so many familiar faces and shared histories. Truthfully, I spent much of the conference in my own head: processing, grieving, reconnecting. It wasn’t anything anyone said or did or didn’t do, it’s just how I’m wired, I reckon.

I spent a lot of time reminding myself why this work still matters so much.

Being inducted as the 2026 VRPS President, here at home, carried a weight I wasn’t prepared for. It felt like both an ending and a beginning, a chance to close one chapter while opening another. From the energy of Earl B. Hunter Jr.’s keynote to the thoughtful closing conversation with John Oney, John David, Maribel Castañeda, and Pete Eshelman, I left reminded that leadership is about service. Recognition and accolades are byproducts.

I’m grateful for this profession, for the people who make it what it is, and for the opportunity to keep contributing to something so much bigger than myself.

- Mike.
Signal Fire
The Virginia Recreation and Park Society (VRPS) continues to advance the parks and recreation profession through education, advocacy, and connection. For more than 70 years, VRPS has provided training, certification, and a statewide network that strengthens local agencies and elevates the role of parks and recreation in every community.

Through programs big and small, VRPS helps professionals at every level build both competence and confidence. Their work ensures that the next generation of parks and recreation leaders understands how to manage programs and facilities, as well as how to lead with empathy, equity, and integrity.

I’ve seen firsthand how this organization brings people together to share ideas and to build the kind of trust that sustains a profession rooted in public service.

The work VRPS does is humble, necessary, and enduring, much like the communities it serves.
One Thought Worth Sitting With
This week’s theme: Gratitude.

“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”
- Marcel Proust

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